My friend is obese, ginger, ugly has buck tooth and glasses, its embarrassing for me to be seen out with her?

She's very nice, but people keep laughing and being rude to her as we walk down the road, and I feel bad for both of us,


SHould I dump my friend and tell her to stay at home more?

My friend is obese, ginger, ugly has buck tooth and glasses, its embarrassing for me to be seen out with her?
You should be a better friend and not let what other people say/think, matter to you.
Reply:help her out,
Reply:your a jerk. maybe you should stay at home. looks aren't everything. i bet one day she'll be famous and you'll be homeless so shut up.
Reply:no if she is your friend then it should not matter would you like it if she felt the same toward you ?
Reply:If you are embarrassed by her are you really her friend?





Why not help her with a makeover.. big people can look beautiful too. It sounds like she needs a friend who is willing to help her. You will be amazed what contacts, a new haircut, bracces and new outfit could do.
Reply:That is so wrong if you were really her friend you would be there for her. You need to realize that nobody is perfect. I bet you are changing her whole life by staying by her side. How would you feel if you were in her shoes? Help her by giving her advice by stepping her style up....
Reply:i think you should stick with your friend if you like her and not think what other people think about the both of you.
Reply:i wood just suggest that you stay home dont be mean to her just try to stay away from public eye








y do u feel bad 4 urself r u obease in that case mabey she feels the same way about you ? and i have glasses there's nothing wrong w/ them a hole
Reply:Sounds like someone is pretty self centered here. How about if you grow a pair and stick up for your friends. Pick your friends by who they are, not by how they look. Maybe you should get out of the 6th grade and enter the world of adulthood...selfish.





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Reply:If she was your real friend you wouldnt care. People are cruel, if it isnt about something it is about something else. Give her some time, or better yet help her out. Go shopping with her, big can be beautiful, glasses can be very cute, and you can always help accent her good qualities so they over look the bad. I am sure it is hard but maybe you are her only friend.
Reply:NO. What kind of friend are you? Since you say she is ginger, I am assuming you are in the UK. What is so horrible about being a red head? A few years back here in the U.S. women of all colours were colouring their hair red. She cannot help the way she looks, especially if she is too young to make a change for herself(contacts, lasiks and dental work.) You are supposed to like people for how they are and how they treat you, not how they look. Grow up!
Reply:If you dump her then you are not her friend. Physical appearance should not get in the way of true friendship. Instead of being embarassed when people are rude to her, you should defend her, and make her feel better when she is down. Also, as a true friend, you should help her look more presentable.
Reply:My first thought is to ask how old you are....If a friend is nice and you enjoy hanging out with her, it does not matter what people think. No matter how perfect a person is, there are people out there who will find something wrong with them. You need to learn to look past it yourself and just enjoy her company!! Good, fun, true friends are hard to find.
Reply:NO! people are going to talk and laugh even if you are with Halley berry. put yourself in her shoes, would you want your Friend to stop taking you out because of other people ignorance. if you are that shallow then maybe you are not really her friend because if you were than it not matter what other people say or do.If it bothers u help her, give her a make over but make it fun and do not be harsh.let her know even without the make over u r still her friend.
Reply:If you were a true friend, you would defend your friend to others, further, try to help your friend to improve their looks, and dress. There are many ways which you can help, if you care about your friend. Do you care about your friend? is there some special favor she does for you? is that why you let her hang around you? Suggestion, do where you live, has a gym, why not join the gym with her, this will help her tone up her weigh, and encourage her to want to eat less. Secondly, they have eye doctors in your area, surely her eyeglasses can be fashionably updated, or contact lens can be used. As far you, as a friend, you should as stated, defend her, if you do this surely, the remarks will stop. You have an duty as a friend, to be a friend. that requires speakin up for her, and help her to improve herself. Surely, if she knew what to do, she would try to do it. Dont you think this hurts her, to ask her to stay home is really mean. This would hurt her even more, as she sees you as a friend. True friends dont do this. how would you feel if it was you in her situation. Wouldnt you want your "friend" to help you. Be a true friend to her. Remember people come and go, but a true friend, is PRICELESS
Reply:You are talking about yourself. You can not get tan. You are sunburned and pale and pasty and ugly and dumb.



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