Why is this boy hurting me and ruining my life?

Okay so my friend tried hooking me up with her ex boyfriend. So she did and we got together and had a fake relationship for 3 days. What I mean by fake is that he was dared to go out with the ugliest girl ever by his friends and got paid 40 bucks to do it. He said the ugliest girl he has ever seen was me. It hurt so bad to know the truth. I cried myself to sleep. Then somehow he found out who I liked from my school and told him I liked him and he was like eww omfg who would ever want to go out with her she is so ugly. Truth is.....lots of boys call me ugly and it is sort of making me lose my confidence around others especially boys. Then he paid his friend to go record me using the restroom. I didn't even know he was recording me omg! And then he got this picture of me and drew all of these things like a mustache, something with my teeth, and made me look hideous and posted it around his school and everyone at his school said I was ugly:( I am in serious pain.

Why is this boy hurting me and ruining my life?
Whoa girl. That is extremely rude and gross behavior! You poor thing. Well, I was made fun of too in high school. I was pretty ugly. O well. No one was ever HAT mean to me though. If this helps, well, now I'm all grown up(im, like, almost 30) and I turned out way hotter than most of the people I know in high school, and same with all the so-called-ugly-girls. So dont sweat it. But as for your friend, i dunno. I wouldn't call that a friend. If I were u I'd find some nice epople to become friends with, no matter what hey're high school status is, cuz in the end, it dosn't even matter. No one cares who u were in high school. Sorry but its true.
Reply:Call the ******* police NOW NOW NOW! I can't emphasize that enough, their is nothing you can do without getting the authorities involved. Turn off you computer, tell your family, then CALL the police NON-EMERGENCY line! I'm not ******* around on this.
Reply:Why are you putting up with this? This is sexual harassment and harassment in general. Contact the police and some authoritative figure
Reply:yer ur friend sounds like a *****.... not only for setting u up with him in the first place but almost taking his side! Not much advice i can give you accept ignore it - give no response and after a while you'll forgot about him. He sounds pathetic dont like a loser like that worry you. As for your friend - dont discuss the guy he's not worth your words.
Reply:omg that guy is an asshole. just ignore him, dont pay attention to him, and its more likely hell get bored, and stop. act confident, stick with your friends and ignore the guy. hes just trying to stirr you up. if you act confident and act like you dont care bout what he says or does..hell stop because its not working on you. be strong!!! youll get through. good luck xx
Reply:i feel you.


don't mind them.. i know it's hard, but be strong.


they take advantage of you or hurt you because you're letting them somehow.. have you read that book "the Secret"?


you should read it..cuz it helps you in a lot of things esp your case.





don't let those people ruin your life.


no one can ruin it but you.


i'll support you.. :)


i'll be here for you if you need someone to talk to :)
Reply:hes a boy


keyword BOY


they are idiots the majority of them.


hes got some kinda problem that makes him feel he needs to put others and you down.


i think you shoud do your best do ignore them because you are better then them and they are being very immature.


dont let it bother you, however


if it continues i suggest going to a parent or teacher and getting this settled.


good luck chica!
Reply:Ugh high school! Listen sweetie. Boys are cruel to girls in high school. The majority of them are just going through puberty and not really using the brain above their shoulders but the one below their belt. You said a boy has liked you before so OBVIOUSLY you're not hideous. Don't let people tell you how to think of yourself. YOU'RE the one that has to tell them how to think of you. And if they don't agree with you then screw them. Their loss. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but there is life after high school. You'll find that once you get into college things will be SOOOO much better. So what you can do now is hold your head high and COMPLETELY ignore the jerks who're makin you feel bad.


As for your friend. She's right. She can't hold a grudge against everyone that doesn't like you. She stuck up for you and that's what should matter. Tell her thank you and sorry for thinking she would ever be disloyal. Smile! It WILL get better :)
Reply:Go get a restraining order against him.
Reply:hunny, you are perfect just the way you are. i'm not saying this just to make you feel better but i mean it. god didn't create anything ugly. everything he created is a masterpiece and of all his creations, he is most pleased with humans because he created us in his own image and likeness. so don' take any of this crap that this guy is giving you or anyone else for that matter. stand up for yourself and only then can people see the errors of their ways. people can't hurt if you won't let them.
Reply:some advice to you is you shouldn't listen to wat others say about you, beauty is not what u see on the outside. you have to have confidence in you and so will other people. He's just an complete asshole an is so insecure about himself that he has to find someone else to put down to make himself feel better. Why would your friend hook u up with her ex anyways, you better watch her because she probably had something to do with it. You need to be able to look at yourself and be happy of what u see, and not be depressed because somebody told u that u were ugly. beauty is in the eye of the beholder,god loves you, and also ur family.. Say forget him and try to not thing like that get to you.
Reply:it sounds to me like you need a makeover.


or the guts to tell them to fxck off.





you should tell your parents what they have said about you.


and maybe they'll contact the school.





and i bet one of them like you.


they're just making fun of you because they're boys.



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